Dan and Emily

Work it.

2011-09-09T11:13:00.000-07:00

When Marla was in town a month ago, she got the biggest kick out of Benson's spastic movements. There's really not anything too special about it, but Marla would just laugh and laugh.

The other day, we were video chatting, and she asked me to hold Benson's legs up in the air so she could see him move his legs again. Well, it was so darn cute, she had to take a picture. But she couldn't figure it out. So I held his legs in front of the computer monitor for 5 minutes while she tried to take a picture of it.

SO Marla, this is for you:

The Big House

2011-08-29T10:18:00.000-07:00

I'm not talking about college football. Get your head out of the gutter! The first Michigan game is still 6 days away. I'm talking about the new, man-built, playground in our backyard. Dan and his dad have been working countless hours to get this piece of work built! To Tracy and Dan, thanks for making my day a lot easier to entertain the kids. It was a big undertaking, but you rocked it.

Voila! The finished product. Minus the wood chips for the ground.
The first tower is "The Big House" and the second, "The M Den."

Forced Smile. But oh so cute.

Rope ladder. It's a must!

Monkey Bars? Why of course!

She has separation anxiety from everything, including the pink blanky.

Benson can swing for hours.

Cousins!

Coming inside after a long play at the "park."

Did I mention . . .

2011-07-16T20:40:00.000-07:00

that we've moved 56.24 miles away? Au revoir West Jordan. Bievenidos a Hooper. We moved last week. Since we lived where we worked, this would also imply that we've left our place of employment. We've worked there since we got married. Drove back from the good ol' honeymoon to get to work on time.

It has been a good change for us. We're not used to having our evenings free. Prime time television feels like watching foreign films without subtitles.

The kids are doing great. Eva has been adjusting quite well. She loves all the extra time to play. She does not like bedtime, however. I fear my life will continue to be these waves of sleep, or nonsleep. I take for granted those rare occasions that she does sleep. As of lately, she has refused to sleep in her crib. She's sleeping on a full bed, but getting her to stay in it is aggravating. Perhaps she thinks that because she turned two, she's too good for a chewed up, prison bar crib.

Here are some random pictures from Eva's birthday. Enjoy!

I {heart} my boys

2011-07-03T10:07:00.000-07:00

Every time I would sign a birthday card/father's day card/christmas card with a heart, my dad would read aloud what we wrote, and then say "heart, comma, Emily." I've gotten in the habit of writing out love, for the most part.

Lately, I can't stop thinking how handsome they both are. Dan has his summer tan groove on, and Benson has his melt-my-heart smile. Seriously, how did I get so lucky?

My dear sweet (sassy) Eva

2011-06-22T11:14:00.000-07:00

She loves listening to music. Especially when she can use the headphones.

Bath time is fun. Never boring. She drinks soapy water. (Don't judge me.) And gets pretty crazy.

Remember those days

2011-06-12T10:12:00.000-07:00

you could lounge in the pool for hours?

be happy in a spot of shade?

not feel silly for wearing your sunglasses upside down?

or be safe in the arms of your daddy?

Yesterday, we were all kids. Six hours in the pool can really do that to you.

The 2 Month Smiler

2011-06-09T14:31:00.000-07:00

Benson went to the doctor yesterday for his 2 month well check. The only things we could come up with to talk about was his uncanny ability to roll over since he was 2 1/2 weeks, being chubby, and not sleeping all that great. I really can't complain.

Weight: 13 lbs. (73rd percentile)
Height: 23.5 inches (77th percentile)
Head Circumference: 14 inches (82nd percentile)

He's quite the handsome guy. Smiles all the time. Just like Eva did. I remember my dad saying multiple times that Eva would have wrinkles by the time she was in primary because she smiled so much. Well Benson, you're on your way too.

This one is for you, Jana

2011-06-07T11:02:00.000-07:00

Eva graduated a semester at the Little Gym today. It has been a really nice activity for Eva and I to do together once a week. I'm definitely sad that it's over.

Eva on the parachute. Her favorite.

Miraculously, she stopped and smiled for me.

She wouldn't hang on the bar for the first couple weeks. Now, she's a pro.

Backward somersault. She's got talent.

And last, getting her award with the wonderful teacher, Miss Lyla.

What about Benson, you ask? Well, he's doing great. Hanging in there like a stud. But apparently he doesn't like kisses from his sister.

Life is Good

2011-04-10T12:43:00.000-07:00

Benson Lee was born on April 7th at 12:16 am. He took his sweet time to come out, and we were all getting restless waiting for him. It's funny to think that I actually expected the second labor and delivery to turn out just like the first. Benson took about double the time, and so much more pain since my epidural only worked on one side. Dan's poor hand took a beating.

I know I'm biased, but he's perfect!

We actually got them both dressed for church this morning. It was a miracle.

Benson sleeps so so much. It's been really nice. So basically it doesn't seem a lot harder with two kids. I guess I'll get back to you when the newborn week wears off. . .

What to do, what to do. . .

2011-03-11T12:07:00.000-08:00

I've never felt so pregnant before. These last 3 or 4 weeks may just teach me patience, once and for all. As far as that goes, I'm scheduled to be induced April 6th, and if Benson is as stubborn as Eva, then that's when he will arrive.

So at the beginning of the year, I did the unthinkable, and wrote down a list of goals to try for the year, aka "New Years Resolutions." I'm like 1 for 10. But let's not dwell on the 9, and instead highlight the one.

My goal was to do an activity once a week that was 1) planned and 2) specifically for Eva. I thought we could up our quality time spent together. Let's be honest, it's much easier to put on Sesame Street and lie down on the couch, then it is to go out and have some fun.

But really, the effort is nothing compared to what we've gotten out of it.

Weekly classes at a placed called The Little Gym. Eva interacts with other kids her age, works on her listening skills, builds self confidence, and basically turns into a little gymnast. (ie at Kohls yesterday, Eva started to try to do a somersault on the tile floor.)
Library singing/story time. I went for the first time this week. I felt a little awkward, since it wasn't quite as organized as the "paid" classes, but the singing was educational, and Eva gets to practice not stealing toys from kids.
The Park. Luckily, we have one where we work. I used to be able to walk the 3 miles round trip. But I'm afraid that's just not possible unless there were porta-potties along the way.
Painting nails. I got a manicure a few weeks back, and Eva was attracted to the dark pink nail polish. I have to hide the nail polish now because every time she sees it she squawks until I paint her nails. EVERY one of them.
Foot massages. Dan was really nice and rubbed lotion on my feet one night. Eva kept saying "please" so it could be her turn. So Dan lotioned Eva's feet next. And it's happened more than once because she'll bring the bottle of lotion to us. She's a diva. And I think it's funny.

Blue and Maize. Hey, I let her pick the colors!

Last night we went Classic Skating with the girls at work. Eva came along, and I was pretty much kidding when I asked the guy if they had skates in Eva's size. I didn't think they would have them, nor did I think Eva would want to stand 2 seconds on them. But they had these adjustable skates, and getting her off of them was the hardest part of my night. It was quite hilarious.

There is lots more things too, like dance parties, and reading books. But I was trying to go outside the realm of the usual. I'm looking forward to summer when we can to more parks, zoos, and splash pads.

Eva's Playlist

2011-03-10T15:07:00.000-08:00

Fun auntie Marla came into town last month. Dan and I are known to have dance parties with Eva. We turn off Elmo, get a little resistance, but alas, Outkast helps her snap out of it

A Fly on the Wall in West Jordan, Utah

2011-02-22T11:20:00.000-08:00

Did I forget to mention that Dan has been deathly ill? Ask him, he'll admit to never being this sick in his life. He holds his chest when he coughs, pants while going up one flight of stairs, and has watched the LOTR trilogy. Bleh.

Eva has croup. But I'd say they're both on the mend. As for me? Well, I'm perfectly healthy. As healthy as a pregnant whale.

Dan has been on codine. It's not even really a "hard core" drug, but it effects Dan as if it were. He's in and out. Mostly out. And doesn't remember things that happen. (ie Eva threw up all over me in the middle of the night after a coughing fit. I go into the room covered in throw up to change, and he had no recollection of it the next day. I'd say that it was pretty memorable. I guess not.)

He can't drive on codine. Good thing too. 'Cause we'd all be dead. I drove him to Wendy's to get a frosty. He couldn't even sit in the passenger seat and eat his frosty in peace. He was too busy frantically watching my every turn. I could tell he didn't like my driving. But I didn't say anything . . . yet.

Yesterday we were talking about driving, and I just started busted up laughing. I don't know why but I found it so hilarious in that moment that neither of us could stand the way the other one drives. And we're married for an eternity. So this is how the conversation went.

Emily: {laughing, quietly, and then erupted into a knee slapping, I'm the only one laughing, but I don't care if Dan is looking at me like I'm the one on drugs} Don't you think it's funny that we can't stand the way the other one drives?
Dan: {offended/flabbergasted/shocked} What are you talking about? What don't you like about my driving?
Emily: {uh oh. I think I started something} I mean it's obvious you don't like the way I drive.
Dan: Yeah, but what don't you like about MY driving?
Emily: You know, stuff. It doesn't really matter. I was only kidding
{We go back and forth like this for a bit, then finally. . .}

Dan: Well, I'll tell you what I don't like about your driving. You get too close to other cars, and it's scary.
Emily: That's the way my dad taught me to drive. Aggressive driving, you know? It's called knowing the dimensions of your car, and driving with empowerment.
Dan: The scary thing is I don't think you don't know the dimensions of your car.

So it could be true. I'm driving my Buick LeSabre like it was my old Chevy Metro. But hey, at least I have Utah plates now, so I'm not giving Minnesota a bad rep.

Sunny Winter Days

2011-02-21T11:36:00.000-08:00

The weather has gone back and forth. Some days we get snow. Others are a "wintry mix." And by wintry mix, I mean hail, then blizzard snow, and zero visibility. Just ask my cousin and her new hubby. They drove down from Ogden in it.

Last Sunday it was one of those nice days that made everyone reminisce the happiness of Springtime. And so, per mandate of Dan, we all went outside and had an hour of "Vitamin D time."

Eva is happy snow, or sunshine. But let's be honest. I last a lot longer when it's sunny and slightly warm.

Minnesnowtah {January 2011}

2011-01-26T11:48:00.000-08:00

Talk about a great deal of snow in my homeland. Yup, snow just about every day. You betcha. But there was still lots of fun to be had. That's the great thing about Minnesotans: snow doesn't slow us down. I was visiting for a week to see family, and attend my cousin's wedding.

So here it goes--the good times condensed:

Eva picking up the refrain of "Old MacDonald" on her own, and randomly breaking out in E I E I Oooooh to inform us all that it was time to sing again. She sings her part right on cue. I'm a proud mama.

Pedicures with Reva, without the kids. And the funny lady that did my nails. She was quite the perfectionist. She kept making me sit under the lamps to make sure my toes were completely dry. Well, newsflash, I didn't have the patience. I ended up smudging the polish on one of my toes. She saw that it was smudged, and was beside herself. I begged her to just leave it, but she insisted, repainted the nail, and made me go under the lamps again.

A night out shopping and the movie Tangled with the sisters. (Again, no kids.)

Aunt Marla determined to be the fun auntie, and giving Eva all sorts of rides. Eva ended the trip asking for "wee wees" until we all had to turn down her cute request because our backs were aching.

Eva isn't the best sleeper when she's not in her own crib. For that reason we had some late night TV watching. After my dad's third heart surgery, he was left with quite the audible tick. One night Eva laid on his chest forever, and I'm pretty sure the ticking lulled her to sleep.

Underwater World at the Mall of America. Because what's a trip to Minnesota without going to the MOA?

Flying with Eva. The way out was bearable. Coming back was a whole different story. The stewardess took pity on me, sat down beside me, and started talking to her calmly, and petting her little feet and toes. Turns out she has three dogs at home, and she finds that babies like similar treatment.

Skyping with Dan. Watching Eva's face light up. And seeing what crazy face expressions we'll do as parents to get our child to smile.

All the grandkids together, chasing each other in circles, pushing, shoving, and love.

Eva loves to do blow kisses on my tummy. She has become obsessed with lifting up my shirt and doing just that. One night while we were staying at the hotel for my cousin's wedding, she wouldn't go to bed. I was sharing a room with Marla. And for about 10 minutes at 10 pm Eva just kept blowing kisses on my oversized tummy. It was much funnier in the morning.

Family room chats with my parents. We just sit out there and catch up. It's a favorite pastime of mine.

And we just bought our tickets to visit in May. It will be our 3rd anniversary, so what better way to spend it than listening to the Lake Superior waves crashing on the shore.

And that's a wrap {1}

2010-12-28T21:41:00.000-08:00

Today, December 28, I realized that Christmas was over. I know the realization came a bit late. But today was our first day off of work. Most people get holidays off, but we work more on those days, and reap the benefits later. I was a little sad when it sunk in today. No more excuses to buy presents. No Christmas lights to turn on at night. Not even a good reason to make baked goodies.

Eva definitely loved the attention, late nights, and extra chocolate!

Twirling in her Christmas Eve PJs.

Eva was a little overwhelmed with all her gifts. Most were bigger than her.

But our Christmas was pretty wonderful. I love presents. And good food. But I also tried to remember that we were celebrating the birth of our Savior. I have often pondered in my heart the blessing it is to have Eva. I can't even find ways to describe how I feel, or how my love for her grows every day. It is the most selfless love I have ever felt. And it brings so much joy.

Well, I read in Luke about the wise men, who were watching their flocks when the angel told them: I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.

Without a doubt, the birth of our Savior, was good tidings of great joy. I'm going to try to remember that whether it be December, April, or any day of the week. (Let the list of New Years resolutions begin. . .)

Oddly enough, I've blogged more this month, than I have for the year! It's time for me to put my feet up, get a pedicure, and take a break. I'll see you all in 2011!

Cold toes and ears {2}

2010-12-24T07:30:00.000-08:00

We went sledding. It wasn't "perfect" sledding conditions, but it was still a good time. Dan was reluctant to let the 6 month pregnant woman go down, but I've always been a little stubborn.

I'd say Eva loved it. Sometimes she'd grip on for dear life, but there was always a smile after.

Feeling the Love {3}

2010-12-23T11:19:00.000-08:00

Eva loves to find her belly button. She started to find my belly button too, which can be somewhat awkward when we're in a crowd. Well, she's started to notice my protruding belly, and likes to slap it. I don't know if she likes the sound or what. But I'll tell her to be gentle, and that her baby brother is in there. She'll slap harder.

But then, I tell her to give her brother a hug, or kiss him, and she listens. It's pretty darn cute. (Until she starts slapping my belly again)

Christmas is oh so near {4}

2010-12-21T21:50:00.000-08:00

And all her friends {5}

2010-12-21T18:05:00.000-08:00

Eva has collected a lot of stuffed animals. I can't say I was too happy about it, since I once had the goal for all of her toys to fit in her toy box. (Oh, how naive I was.) But each one has a neat story behind it. Lots of girls at work have given her some. And one was sent when she was still a fetus. Another is from Grand Marais, Minnesota. . . and so she's a collector of sorts.

She enjoys reading with them. She really loves reading. Every night she'll go pick out her books to read, and keep going back for more. She prolongs bedtime, and how can I say no to learning?

From the Mouth of Babes {6}

2010-12-20T12:14:00.000-08:00

Why is it that animal noises from the mouth of children are so much cuter?

The video was taken with my new iPod. She is so fascinated to see herself when it's recording or taking a picture. And then when we go back and watch the video, she tries to beat herself on the camera to saying it first.

For the Love of Pears {7}

2010-12-19T14:36:00.000-08:00

Genetics. Sometimes it bites you in the butt. Like having the pickiest eater for a child. If only I could send her to Argentina now to broaden her food horizons. . . instead I'll have to wait 20 more years.

But this girl sure can eat pears. Remember this gem of a video? I watched it just the other day, and I fell in love with Eva all over again. She's a hoot.

Dazed and Confused {8}

2010-12-17T22:22:00.000-08:00

Today has been such an off day.

Eva woke up early this morning. Took a really short nap after she had watched Sesame Street at 11, and woke up screaming. We went out to run errands and she was fussy the whole time. Finally, around 4 we couldn't take it anymore and put her down for a nap. (I was trying to make it to her bedtime at 7.)

Dan and I decided a nap sounded nice too! So he slept till 7, I kept on till 8, and Eva was the champion who slept till 8:15.

Talk about waking up disoriented! But I sure do love naps, so I'd say it was totally worth it.

I'll tell you what's missing. . .{9}

2010-12-17T05:54:00.000-08:00

Recap of me and Dan's convo right before bedtime (keep in mind he's intently playing angrybirds on the iPod touch)

Emily: Aren't you proud of me? This is the most I've ever consistently blogged . . .
Dan: Uh. . . . yeah. That's great hon.
Emily: Yeah, I guess so. But it's getting boring. I feel like something is missing.
Dan: I'll tell you what's missing: ME!

Okay okay. I was skeptical. But, let's give it a try.

This week has been finals week. Dan has a nickname for it. But I'll keep my blog G rated. (Forgive me for the blog on Dan's farting book.)

His last one is tomorrow morning. I'll probably still be sleeping when he has to leave. But boy oh boy, we've been anxious for this semester to be over!!

Burping? Or singing Andrea Bocelli into his DMD (Diet Mountain Dew)?

You decide. But I prefer the latter.

Good luck on your last final for 2010 Dan!!

It's nice to have Sisters {10}

2010-12-15T21:04:00.000-08:00

Especially when they send you a piece of your home state for Christmas. Yes, that's right. Since Utah and Minnesota seem so far away, there is priority mail to shorten the gap.

Oh Marla. I'm sorry it took me a while to catch on to the midwest theme, but now I appreciate it that much more!

"Good Tidings of Joy" {11}

2010-12-14T21:12:00.000-08:00

A couple weeks ago, Dan and I walked into the doctor's office to see how our baby's development is coming along. I love my ultrasound tech. It's like she knows all of the things a mother's overactive mind can come up with, and she eases my worries.

It was pretty neat to be holding Dan's hand and have the ultrasound tech tell us such great news about our baby boy. That's right. Eva will be having a little brother. Depending on which due date you go by, April 7th, or 12th, either one, I just pray it's not two weeks late again.

Here he is sitting cross-legged. If that helps you decipher at all. . .

To answer your question, Mom. . . {12}

2010-12-13T15:43:00.000-08:00

Yes, Eva got her packages.

And I'd say she's already quite attached.

An Early Present {13}

2010-12-12T21:20:00.000-08:00

One of the girls at work gave Dan this book as an early Christmas present.

There are noises and everything. It's pretty gross. But then again, it was pretty funny.

Last Minute Practice {14}

2010-12-11T18:33:00.000-08:00

She was just practicing Handel's Messiah for church tomorrow.

Our progeny? Or is it a child prodigy?

And for those of you that are into details, I've been delving into Photoshop tutorials lately to add texture to my pictures. It's pretty fun.

Destroyer Force {15}

2010-12-10T13:48:00.000-08:00

Eva, aka the destroyer force (as we sometimes call her), has managed to break 3 of my 4 pairs of glasses.

It's a shame she's too young to understand the lesson of coal in her stocking. Instead, she'd probably be thrilled at the prospect of making mucky black messes all over.

Disclaimer: The mother is fully responsible despite her attempts to put it on her innocent child. No child was hurt in the frivolous act of breaking glasses.

She Just Got Away {16}

2010-12-09T20:56:00.000-08:00

No picture. But oh how I wish.

The girls at work had a home basketball game. I always enjoy going to watch, but end up running after Eva and keeping her occupied. It's usually easiest if we are in the first row, so then she doesn't try to fall down the stairs.

I had pulled out a yummy Nutrigrain bar for her to eat. She doesn't eat. But I still try (yep, we've covered that). So she squishes the bar into the bleacher behind me. I'm a little anal when it comes to cleaning up her messes.

I pull out a wipe from the diaper bag, and turn toward the bleacher behind me. After roughly three seconds of scrubbing at the gooey apple filling, I hear the crowd yelling "Whoa." And "Stop!" And alas, the refs are blowing their whistles. Dan had adrenaline jumped down the stairs (he was at the top), and as I turn around my slow pregnant body, I see that Eva is in the middle of the court. I turned around just in time to see her cheesy smile, filled with mischievousness and triumph. Dan picked her up, but the game had already been interrupted. Oh, I'm sure the crowd got a kick out of it. But I was a little mortified.

Chocolate Pudding {17}

2010-12-08T08:57:00.000-08:00

All I have to say is one two three cheese, and I get this pretty face.

And for those of you wondering if I prettified the picture with chocolate pudding face painting, the answer is no. Eva is not a good eater. Not at all. She has no patience for it. And she won't ever let me feed her, which limits what I can feed her. I've given in. And I let her feed herself the chocolate pudding. And anything else that will get her to swallow.

Measurements of Time {18}

2010-12-07T14:27:00.000-08:00

We used to take long road trips. Minnesota to Utah. 24 hours of driving. My parents were brave, what can I say? That's when my mom taught us to measure time in increments of sesame street episodes. Rather than asking, "How much longer?" we'd ask, "How many more sesame streets is it?" Pretty clever, if you ask me.

When I left home for the first time, I wasn't quite used to the whole idea of living on my own. I grew up in a family where we all shared a drawer in the bathroom, and in that drawer is a community toothpaste. Makes sense. Why have 6 tubes of toothpaste? So, during my first semester at college, I finished my very own tube of toothpaste. I don't know why it meant so much to me, but if that toothpaste would be so pretentious as to symbolize something, it was my independence and proof that I wasn't a kid anymore. I had no idea when I bought the tube of toothpaste, how much it would mean to me empty.

Well, I had one of those moments, but this time I was alarmed because I thought, whoa, I'm on my way to being empty nested and retired. Ready for this? Our pepper shaker. The one we got as a wedding gift. It's almost out of pepper. That's right. I said it: we're coming to the end of our first pepper shaker. It didn't mean anything when the salt ran out. We've refilled it many times. I have an addiction to sodium. But pepper? I mean, come on. That takes years. We barely use the pepper shaker.

And so, my latest measurement of time is the pepper shaker. Whether it be episodes of Sesame Street, tubes of toothpaste, or anything else your heart desires—I can't help but be grateful for reminders to slow down and live in the moment.

New Traditions {19}

2010-12-06T21:36:00.000-08:00

Gingerbread Houses. I'm not crafty. I lack creativity, and patience, or maybe it's because I'm from Minnesota. Don't cha know? Still, Eva and I had a good time making our little house.

Actually, Eva sat at the table and reached for ramekins filled with candy. She just kept shoveling a variety of candies into her mouth, barely stopping to chew and swallow. It was probably something right out of her dreams.

Ringing in the New Year {20}

2010-12-06T10:02:00.000-08:00

Mark your calendar.

Michigan will be playing Mississippi St. in the Gator Bowl on January 1st.

Dan is so excited that we may have to buy a 60'' HDTV. Don't worry, I'll try to talk him out of it.

The Ducks that Stayed Behind {21}

2010-12-04T22:04:00.000-08:00

Date night on Friday was Gardner Village. On our way, I casually mentioned the ducks at the pond. But of course, they would already be headed South. Except that they had to be there for Eva. Those good ones stayed behind.

Christmas Countdown Calendar {22}

2010-12-03T11:41:00.000-08:00

Some of you may read Mila's Daydreams. It's a neat blog from a Finnish lady on maternity leave. She gave me the idea to have a Christmas countdown calendar. And since one of my latest "anonymous" blog readers has called me boring, I thought it would be a nice change of scenery for the few of you that still check back.

And yes, I missed the first few days. But hey, it's my countdown now isn't it.

Eva wants to be one of Santa's helpers this year.

(For the longest time I thought Eva was trying to strangle herself when I would see her do this. I would call her cute, or oh so pretty, and she'd put her hands under her chin. I was a little alarmed. Turns out that one of the girls at work taught her to knuckle her fists under her chin and sway back and forth whenever she told Eva how cute she was.)

Aging with Style

2010-11-16T11:57:00.000-08:00

November is a great month. Except for the fact that it's my birthday. Note to self: Don't marry men that are younger than you, because then you are always the older one first. Talking numbers is taboo on my birthday, so then I get to celebrate without "feeling" old. It was a wonderful day! Dan loves birthdays. His own, his family member's. . . he'd probably even celebrate President Obama's birthday just to par-tay.

Hugest box of my life. Dan's all about "tricking" me.

Us Kucera girls are horrible at face expressions.
Hence, I don't like my reactions to be caught on camera.

Pair of sunglasses that game with the Wii game Just Dance 2!

Eva wanted to match her mama. Finally, she keeps something on her head.

Just Your Average Family

2010-10-30T14:45:00.000-07:00

Carving pumpkins on Halloween weekend.

Or maybe I'm wrong. . .

Don't all families carve block M's and footballs into their pumpkins??

The Sound of Departure

2010-10-16T11:27:00.000-07:00

Open the fridge. I pause to self reproach before I reach in. Snap. Hisssss. And finally POP. The lovely sound of compressed, and carbonated air quickly released never sounded so good. Perhaps it's the pregnancy, and my goal not to drink caffeine. I "rebelled" and drank my first can of pregnancy Diet Coke Lime right after dropping Dan off at the airport.

Hey, if he can have a boys trip in Michigan, and be in the first row to watch the game vs. Iowa, the pregnant woman should at least get to indulge in something equally as sporadic, right?

So while Dan is in the beautiful Midwest, I thought it was a perfect time to update the Allen Family b~~eginnings,~~ I mean settlings. (because it wouldn't quite be considered "beginnings" with two kids. If it was, that would imply I was having 10 kids, which is not happening)

We took turns planning date night. Dan has the habit of being good at everything he does. Every. Thing. He knows I love a night in, and planned the movie, the pizza, and the dessert: Cheesecake Factory in my home, without the wait! Eva enjoyed it just about as much as I did.

I was starting to panic when the next Friday it was my turn. Ask my sister Marla. I called her in a moment of desperation, seeking her creativity, and she just laughed at how worried I was about planning date night. We have a corn maze right by our house, which sounded like a great idea since we hadn't done that in forever, and it involved getting out.

Dan turned 25, and this year marked the first time I actually made a cake, rather than buying one. It's all about baby steps.

Don't Fret it; you're just a quarter of a century!

2010-09-30T12:05:00.000-07:00

Since I've been there, done that, here's my advice to you Dan: 25 is not so bad. It almost seems like a nice even number, although it's definitely not an even number, but it should treat you quite nicely!

Eva's been practicing for Saturday's game:

Happy Birthday Dan! You are the hardest worker, straight A, most guapo husband and father we could have asked for!!

She Just Smiled

2010-09-08T21:28:00.000-07:00

The Utah air is finally starting to simmer down after the hot summer. I enjoy sitting outside so much more when there is a breeze, and I can sit comfortably in the open (not in the shade). Today, I gave Dan some quiet time for the half hour or so we had before work. Ergo, Eva and I went outside to "drink in the flowers" with a figurative Marilla.

After a few uncomfortable minutes, I was getting a little tired of the pebble filled cement, and the tickly grass. The camping chair in the corner was calling my name. It was about to be my safe sitting abode. And it came at no little price. I opened it up to find an awkward looking whitish spider. And a moth the size of an Argentine cockroach. After I found a shield for myself, I swatted the pests off. No more than three seconds later, Eva is attempting to crawl up on the green chair, and claim her domain. Okay, I doubt she can climb up there . . . and I revert to temporarily sitting back on the concrete to watch.

She made it up my chair. If only I captured the look of satisfaction on her face. She was proud, and she just smiled. So, I slouched my back to get as comfortable as I could on the awkwardly hard surface. I didn't last long, until I had the fleeting thought: cookie dough ice cream in the freezer. Dan bought it earlier in the week. We rarely have ice cream on hand.

I should have known the presence of food would mean Eva's squawking replacing the breeze. First the chair, and now she was demanding most of my single scoop of ice cream.

She looks so comfortable and cute. How could I really mind? Except to think of the ironies: that I did all the bug skedaddling, searching out the perfect ray of sun, and ice cream scooping for my daughter, and yet I thought I was doing them for myself.

And that's when I had an Emily moment. You know, where I could see all the good things that come from everything going the other way from what I planned on. I love being a mom. I love being able to part with insignificant things that I thought would matter, but suddenly don't, because giving away these selfish things is what makes her part of me.

And so I give her the last spoonful. One with the coveted few cookie dough pieces. And she eats it up. Every last bit. But it still feels like we shared because I've come away a little more selfless, and she has the elated chocolate face to prove it.

Here Comes the Fun

2010-09-05T14:25:00.000-07:00

The college football countdown has finally ended because this week marked kickoff for the 2010 season. I have been trained like Pavlov's dogs to think football when I walk out in a chill, crisp air after months of summer. It's starting to get to me, and I actually enjoy rooting for our team.

Oh, and in case you are behind, the Golden Gophers came out on Thursday with a W. woot woot.

Eva has been somewhat difficult with the camera lately. She only wants to stick her finger in the lens, so when I attempt to take a picture, this is what I get:

But then she has her good moments too. And here we are before the Wolverines rocked it at the Big House.

So here's wishing good luck to a winning season, which makes for a fall of Happy Saturdays!

Traveling with Toddler feels like Sand Between the Toes

2010-08-24T21:22:00.000-07:00

Ahh Airports. Aren't they oh so alluring, but dreaded for making such long days. We recently returned from a two week vacation to the great land of Minnesota. One week on Lake Superior–the other in my former abode: Minnetonka.

Lake Superior is the closest thing I've seen to the Ocean. And it's gorgeous. I remember my mom sitting on the edge of the ebb and flow of the waves. She would look for agates for so long that by the time she was done, the water that once hit her ankles and was now up to her thighs. I joined her in this hobby, and started my own collection of Lake Superior rocks. As for one of the consequences of digging for rocks: tiny bits of sand and rock would get stuck between our toes. I've never liked the feeling, but it doesn't stop me from returning for more.

We had a layover each way. I'm all too familiar with the Denver airport. Although I used to appreciate the free wifi, having an energized one-year old nullifies any attempts I make to peruse the internet. Dan and I take turns wearing her out, running around with her, and going up and down the escalator enough to make us sick.

Eva is getting to be fast. And I'm feeling old these days. I coaxed one of our trips toward the bathroom, so we could wash her hands. It's impossible to get her to stop touching the ickiest things. She thinks it's funny, and she is by nature, a tease.

I stood at the women's bathroom sign that read: closed for cleaning, and knew that I would have to pick her up to go to the next nearest bathroom. I will do most anything to avoid picking her up more than I have to. It's hard on the old woman's back.

The problem: I hesitated. Problem dos: I was hoping she would follow, but instead she darted toward the other side of the corridor, and entered the men's bathroom. Problem tres: instinct killed me. You see, walking into a bathroom of the opposite sex should always be avoided, but in necessary situations, at least announce yourself before walking in. Instinct told me to simply bolt in and rescue my wandering child: I dashed in, and covered my eyes (but leaving enough room to see a 2 feet being). I flushed ten shades redder in seconds, yelled out an apology behind me, and hoped never to see the man again.

Eva innocently waved goodbye to the city of Minneapolis after our trip. The next time we're out traveling (November) I may just succumb to the backpack leash and suffer the consequences of looking like an OCD mother. For good reason, of course.

Delving into West Jordan: one day at a time

2010-08-04T10:49:00.000-07:00

I can't remember if I mentioned that Dan opted out of his second course summer classes. Now, that may not seem like such a big deal, but let me tell you: Dan has not taken a break from school since we got married. He goes year round. And he's dedicated. It took some convincing, but he knew too that a break would do the body good.

So we are exploring WJ, and so far, we have kept busy for the summer. We started out in our backyard, with the beautiful view of the mountains. Picnics, kiddie pools, and a big red rubber ball can keep us entertained for hours. Eventually, Eva takes a break to appreciate the view!

Dan found a Living Planet Aquarium right in West Jordan. I had never thought about looking for one. Good thing there are other moms blogging out there that give me such great ideas to go out for an adventure once in a while.

One day, one of my friends called me up and asked if we could meet at a Splash Pad with our girls–they are only two months apart. I had never heard of a Splash Pad, but when she said it was free, and safe for infants, and involved water squirting out of the ground, I knew it was a go ahead. This is one at Liberty Park in Salt Lake.

And finally, we ventured out of our bubble, and headed to Oxford, Idaho for a family get together. It is so beautiful up there, and it was a perfect place to relax and sit in the shade.

Boys will be boys. And I don't think they ever grow out of the climbing tree stage.

Water Baby

2010-07-24T19:51:00.000-07:00

I used to dread giving Eva baths when she was a newborn. It was miserable for all of us, including the neighbors who could hear her wailing.

She loves the water now, and is becoming some kind of fearless dolphin. Not quite, but soon enough. Being a first time mother is a miraculous thing. Why? Because somehow, just somehow, Eva breathes in and out every day, survives every fall, and easily forgets the almost near-death experiences.

She fell over in the bathtub a few nights ago, and was helplessly trying to grab on to something in the few seconds it took me to react. It was quite sad really, and it made me meditate on the helplessness of babies, and the responsibility of mothers. How many times does a mother end up saving her child's life? Perhaps it's not a novel idea to everyone else that babies can't survive without constant supervision, but in the moment, I realized that Heavenly Father gives us that opportunity for a wise learning purpose.

My mom lovingly forced all four of her girls to take swimming lessons, until we were not just competent, but well advanced. I enjoyed taking lessons, up until they made me dive off the diving board. That's when I wanted to quit. But quitting wasn't an option. My mom never learned to swim, so she was going to make darn well sure that the four of us could survive in the water on our own.

Sometimes, there are just no words.

Yes, I actually braved the swimming suit and jumped in the pristine pool alongside Eva.

Bath time is a nightly must. It's key in the routine of bedtime.

We recently took Eva to Gardner Village in West Jordan. It is a place with lots of shops that we look to browse and pretend the things we would buy if we were rich. The one store we do buy something at: Sweet Afton's Shop. Darn good fudge. Eva loved the ducks at the pond the most however. We had to hold tight, otherwise she would have jumped in after her new friend.

The Complexity of Blogging

2010-07-16T21:43:00.000-07:00

I've developed a new complex, or perhaps excuse for laziness in blogging. I've been reading some great blogs lately. I got my hands on a book by Tara Frey called, "Blogging for Bliss." It's phenomenal. And there are all these crafty, innovative, and humorous blogs out there. Which, somehow demotivated me into blogging. Who am I to blog about such and such, when there are heroic people like Nie Nie or talented writers such as Happy Zombie? But hey, it's your prerogative to read blogs, so read on. . . (my hiatus is now officially over).

July has been an awesome month. Two of my sisters flew out to visit us here in Utah, Eva turned one on the 6th, and Dan and I went camping for five days straight.

As for the sisters, well, I couldn't be happier that they come out to visit. I couldn't tell you who Amy Li is, but I like her for saying––

Having a sister is like having a best friend you can't get rid of.

You know whatever you do, they'll still be there.

Jan and me on our hike to Donut Falls. It reminded me so much of our Minnesota hikes, minus the elevation. But there was so much green, and rocks, and water. Beautiful!

Marla and I are soaking up some sun rays––meanwhile, Eva was in her new birthday pool.

It's no secret that I usually don't miss a day of some form of communication with my family in Minnesota. I miraculously lasted a year and a half in Argentina with two phone calls a year, and weekly emails home. But since I'm no longer living the Argentine life, I embrace technology in all of its forms, and always encourage visits!

Eva turned one. I'm embarrassed to admit that I once dreaded Eva getting older/bigger. But she is in such a fun stage, and I genuinely look forward to playing with her and laughing. We had a wonderful birthday party with family, and lots of duck cake. That's right. You read correctly: duck cake. Since I've been in blogging remission, I probably haven't mentioned that Eva says duck about 100 times a day. I'm not exaggerating. She loves the word. And she says it as clearly as a pronunciation guide on an online dictionary. Dan's mom willingly went along with the theme of ducks and made cakes for everyone.

And last, as for the camping trip. It marked the first time I had been away from Eva for longer than 12 hours. I was lost for the first day, and finally succumbed to the time-wasting tactics of girls' camp yarn bracelets. It actually worked to take my mind off the intermittent panic that would overcome me: "Shouldn't I be taking care of Eva?" And then I would remind myself, oh yeah, I didn't bring her. I soon let the guilt be washed away in my dirty-smelly-camping self and found other things to worry about. I did not bring the camera, and that was on purpose. It was a mandatory camping trip for our work, and I really did enjoy some aspects. However, after the third time of me saying "I hate camping with a passion," Dan kindly reminded me that we would be going camping as a family in later years of life.

Photo Shoot Sunday

2010-06-20T23:15:00.001-07:00

I'm relishing in Eva's love affair with the camera. She seems to know exactly what to do. It is just too fun taking pictures of her. The picture below may look like I spent a few minutes, even an hour, getting her to pose for the picture. Nope. No posing here. This is my natural born diva baby.

We're enjoying the beautiful weather out here, and can't seem to get enough. Eva is becoming accustomed to the Coppertone Water Babies spray-on sunscreen, and I just happen to love how she smells after a day in the sun. Reminds me of how I love sniffing cabbage patch dolls' heads. It never gets old.

She's walking all around. We are still struggling with her walking at the right pace. When she tries to keep up with the other long-legged persons around her, she tends to face plant it. But I love that she doesn't care when she falls (doesn't even cry most of the time) and gets right back up to try again. The first couple days of her "unassisted walking steps" I would call her the kamikaze walker. She would go from one stationary object to the next, zipping by on a prayer that she wasn't going to fall, until she finally reached a steady object to catch herself on.

I couldn't have asked for a finer father for our precious girl. It was a wonderful Father's day to be together.

Out and About

2010-06-09T18:46:00.001-07:00

Classic Skating. What a blast (from the past, that is). Eva was a bit frightened by the loud music, and disco lights, but when someone pulls the camera out she knows what to do! I took her around the floor a couple times, but I think she just wanted her own pair of skates.

Today I took Eva on her first bike ride. I was a little rusty. Wobbly, and then add the nerves of falling with Eva trailing behind . . . Here she is with her friend, Vecina, we'll call her. The two of them have a fun time together.

Looks like she is confusing sharing with forcing food down someone's throat.

June is a Month of Saving

2010-06-03T21:29:00.001-07:00

I'm not embarrassed to admit that while perusing the library aisles, I came across a book called The Coupon Mom's Guide to Cutting Your Grocery Bills in Half. I usually check out a lot of books at the library, feel motivated to learn something new, and never finish the book after feeling that inkling of motivation. That's me in a nutshell. And guess what? I still haven't finished Coupon Mom, but from the first 6 chapters I've learned a thing or two. And it's so exciting I have to share.

I've started by going to a few websites with internet coupons. Some of my favorites are Target's and Smith's, because then I can mix those (double deal!) with manufacturer's coupons from sites like smartsource.com or coupons.com. Print the coupons in black and white, save a few pennies on ink.

I really haven't forced myself to be a savvy shopper before. At first, I didn't really get all of the tricks Stephanie Nelson, the author, was talking about. I feel like I'm the last one to jump on the money-saving band wagon. Better late than later. Credit goes to my sweet Grandma of O-town for always sharing her coupons and inspiring me to be more frugal. Really, I never thought that I was literally throwing money away when I didn't use the coupons.

I was encouraged to blog about my newest fetish when today I had a major find/sale/bargain shopper's dream come true at Target. Many of you know that Dan and I like to eat our fair share of fiber. Dan especially is addicted to the FiberOne cereals. At Walmart they cost $3.89, regular price. Target comes through with a much better regular price: $3.19. Today I went to Target with my binder of coupons, prepared to save some hard-earned money. Let me tell you what a steal I made out with: 5 boxes of FiberOne cereal for a quarter a piece. A quarter!! Here's the breakdown for all you visual learners that get lost in the paragraphs:

Target regular price: $3.19

Target sale price: $2.50

Target promotion: $5 gift card with the purchase of five boxes

Manufacture cpn: $.75 off (each box of Fiber One, must print five coupons)

Which equals out a total of 25 cents a box!! That's so much cooler than going to Walmart and paying almost four bucks per box. I felt like a glamourous woman wearing Prada's pleated techno dress with versace shoes, but really I only paid 5 bucks for the outfit. You get what I'm saying . . .

On a sidenote, I may have gone a little overboard when I decided to chop off my hair in order to pinch my pennies on shampoo and conditioner. What can I say? When I want change, I go drastic!

The First of Many

2010-06-02T08:14:00.001-07:00

Or at least we hope it's the first of many. For Memorial Day, we worked a longer day than usual, and decided it would be a good idea to take some of the girls hiking. It was a beautiful day! We thought Ensign Peak would be a good starter hike. Although I didn't realize how bad my stamina has gotten. It was the first hike we took Eva on, and although we didn't have the proper hiking pack for her, she was a trooper.

Who Knew . . . Hogle Zoo.

2010-06-01T08:01:00.001-07:00

A few weeks ago, Dan asked me if I had ever been to the Hogle Zoo. I had never heard of it before, and quite frankly, it sounded like something out of Harry Potter.

On Saturday, Dan, Eva, and I with most of Dan's family headed out to the Zoo with overcast clouds and a light drizzle at 9 o'clock. But it was totally worth beating all the crowds! And in a few hours, the sun broke through the clouds and warmed us up.

I love going to the Zoo with kids, because it makes it that much more entertaining. Eva's favorite animals were the ones that moved around the most. The monkeys swinging around on ropes were pretty funny. I'm just glad we discovered a new place in Salt Lake to visit!

A swimmin' we will go

2010-05-28T11:37:00.001-07:00

I found this amazing rec center. I've been looking around at a couple in the area, and while I was lost, I stumbled on the South Jordan Fitness and Aquatic center.

So I finally got brave and put on a swimsuit for the first time since sixth grade. Not quite, actually, but you know what I'm saying.

Eva's not so sure she likes being half naked either . . .

I was nervous to put her in the really deep water at first. But Eva was definitely bored in the 3 inch section. I imagine she's thinking, "Come on Mom, my bath tub is more fun than this!"

And finally, some real fun!

Big Plans

2010-05-24T12:40:00.000-07:00

Eva and I had big plans today, but somehow it's SNOWING on

May 24, 2010!

Don't freak a twinkie, Mom. Eva just wanted to sit outside for one minute.

Go figure. I'm just going to laugh in people's faces who incredulously ask, "You lived in Minnesota?? Doesn't it snow 364 days of the year there?" Well, let me tell you, it's like this in Minnetonka right now:

Partly Cloudy / Windy

92° F

Feels Like: 95° F

Wind: From S at 23mph gusting to 31mph

Details

Okay, I'm done with my bitter diatribe.

We made the best of today, and accomplished a much-needed laundry day!

Wrinkles of Motherhood

2010-05-09T14:33:00.000-07:00

I have the best. mother. ever.

I know it's mother's day, and everyone is supposed to say that. Kind of like the contagious Spirit of Christmas that overcomes, and suddenly everyone lets you in front of them on a packed freeway. But really, my mom was meant to be the mother of me and my three sisters.

When I was recently in Minnesota she took such good care of me. No matter how old I get, she'll never stop teaching me how to be a mother.

My mom has taught me so much she taught me sacrifice by always putting her husband and children first. I have learned more about my Savior's selfless love through watching my mother serve everyone around her. She is kind, and full of charity. She taught me to trust in the Lord, and even when I was unsure, I trusted in her testimony and the faith of her prayers.

I'll never forget sitting in a Psychology high school classroom, being called on to answer the question, "What do you aspire to be?" and I replied "to love my children like my mother loves us." Angry teenage eyes (my peers) were shocked; I mean, what teenager would say such a thing? A teenager with a mother like mine.

Love you Mom.

All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel Mother.

~Abraham Lincoln

Partying in Minnesota

2010-05-03T08:10:00.000-07:00

Eva and I had a wonderful week in Minnesota–leaving Dan behind to slave away, studying for finals. Finally, he was allowed some peace and quiet!

I didn't have much on the agenda but to spend as much time as possible with my family, and enjoy the time off from work. I was aching to go to the Mall of America, and so I went. I left without a single purchase in hand. Silliness! My mom and Eva were roomies so I got a week of continuous sleep. Heavensent! I loved the Minnesota Zoo with the kids. And my last day we had a girls day out, pampered ourselves with pedicures and eyebrow waxings. Oh la la!

Recap in pictures . . . (since Dan taught me that he automatically stops reading when there's more than one paragraph on any blog)

The park in Minnetonka. Clearly, she loves to swing.

Love her face, love the outfit, love the shoes!

I loved this bear. He was a friendly one, thanks to the inches of glass between us.

Eva wasn't scared at all.

Someday . . . .

Playing my new favorite Wii game: Just Dance. Hilarious to watch and hilarious to play.

And last, my parents on their 40th anniversary. The reason for my going out and being all together as a family on the happy day. They've taught me a lot about marriage, and how to enjoy raising a family. It was a wonderful trip!

Power Struggles

2010-04-20T21:21:00.000-07:00

The other day Dan came home from school and noticed a slight color of pink on two of Eva's finger nails. The whole situation went terrible awry. I was trying to doll her up a little. And don't judge: I know what you're thinking. I have nothing better to do with my time than paint my baby's nails. I just wanted to try it, okay. Dan laughed it off, but told me not to try it again. I've given up on the ear piercing debacle as well. My newest endeavor: hair accessories. I'm not giving up. Today, she was wearing a cute purple outfit, and I tried to add some finesse with a headband. I lost the battle. There's always another go around tomorrow though.

My favorite one, by far.

Finally, she got tired.

Loving Harry & David

2010-04-20T21:10:00.001-07:00

Eva was spoiled for her 9 month mark. A box of Harry & David pears arrived, and in case you didn't know, Eva loves pears. Here's a video of the first pear that she ate, and it was pretty funny:

As far as the 9 month stats go . . . well, I lost the slip of paper with them. But she's just about 20 pounds and pretty long. As far as percentiles, she's slowed down a bit: 60th percentile for weight, 70th for height, and 45th for head. She can stand up on her own for a few seconds, and likes to walk the stroller into walls, but we haven't seen any unassisted walking yet. My guess is she's walking herself in circles when we're not looking.

Egg Hunting and Breathing

2010-04-04T20:33:00.000-07:00

Easter. I love it better without snow, but it was still a good one.

Today, we worked our usual Sunday shift: 15 hours. It was a nice day with the girls, and Dan made sure to put on the biggest egg hunt I've ever seen! 400+ eggs, all hiding with their scrumptious candy inside, waiting to be devoured.

Eva wore her Easter dress (thanks to Aunt Laura for the cutest dress and cardigan) and Dan wore his lava lava. Of course, it's Easter, why not? And it was General Conference. But now I'm thinking it was just an excuse to be comfortable.

Yesterday we spent the day in Hooper with Dan's family and had an amazing time up there. The Easter Egg hunt was awesome, and Dan and I both landed the 5 spots. There's only one thing better than an Easter egg with chocolate, and that's an easter egg with money. Eva would pick up the eggs, but she wasn't very fast, so her dad had to really run fast to get to them.

Eva and awesome Aunt Emily.

Dan with his loot. Notice his mom in the backgroun: she is probably appalled Dan stole all the candy from his nieces and nephews.

Eva and a cute little man. They're buds at just a few months apart.

Eva loves Easter eggs just about as much as Dan. But she loves them for the chewable plastic, not for the chocolately goodness.

Today also marks the day that Eva decided to spout "mamamamama" out of her mouth (finally!) Mind you, it happened after she had quite the scare. Eva stopped breathing for about half a minute and lost consciousness from loss of oxygen. I had no idea what was going on or that it happened enough to have a name: Pallid breath holding spell. It happened right after she shut her finger in a drawer (trying to pull herself up on it) and she was angry enough that she just couldn't breathe. I was attached to her for the rest of the day, but then when Dan took her she started up with the mmmm sounds and I was one happy momma.

We have a lot to be grateful for this Easter 2010. Easter candy. Hearing the voices of the Lord's servants. And most importantly, eternal families made possible through the birth, death, and resurrection of our Savior Jesus Christ.

This little girl of mine . . .

2010-03-31T11:29:00.000-07:00

I'm gonna make her pay, make her pay, make her pay, make her pay. (Am I the only one singing the tune This Little Light of Mine?) My Dad always used to say that he was going to take it out of our hide, but I'll probably just take it out of her college fund. Not really. Six hundred dollars and counting. On her destructive behaviors that is. The iPod was replaced for free, but I wonder if Target would replace the crib if I brought it in? Doubtful, very doubtful.

Dan found these teeth marks just last week. She only has two bottom teeth, but she's breaking them in nicely. I was flabbergasted, and I don't even like using that word. But that's the best one to use.

I mean, look how high she is getting! She has to pull her arms over the top of the crib, and practically hang on to dear life to indent the wood. She's too smart.

The Allen family caught whatever sickness going around West Jordan. Started with a painful sore throat, and then lots of congestion. Not pleasant. Poor Eva has caught it, with a mild ear infection in one ear, and she's just about to cut her top two teeth. (In case you were wondering, that equation equals little sleep.)

She hasn't been going down for naps so easy lately. And her shrill just makes me sad. I've turned soft. So I always end up going to get her and trying to make her tired with more playtime. She usually falls asleep during that time that I'm trying to keep her awake (ironic, don't you think?) Just now while writing this post, she has done it again. I made a safe zone for her to play in her room with practically every toy that we own, but instead she reached her hand in between the bars of the crib to get her silky bunny, and fell asleep on the rug with a toy underneath her. No picture of this one; the camera was charging.

Eva on the Love Sac. We were watching a movie. Monsters, Inc. I think.

I just started laughing when I found her like this. I was cleaning up the house, but I made sure to put an array of bite-sized food. After about 5 minutes of not hearing her chomp, or making her usual eating noises, I went to check on her to find her like this.

I'm surprised she didn't fall asleep while playing with bubbles. She looks a little bored.

Both Of Us

2010-03-23T15:41:00.000-07:00

Sticks out her tongue just like her daddy.

Plays the piano just like her mommy. I love this girl!

Oddly Enough: An Ode to Teeth

2010-03-16T10:16:00.000-07:00

Marla, the wonderful sister that she is, sent Dan and me a little something to help us stay motivated to keep brushing and flossing. I've always wanted a Sonicare toothbrush, but I couldn't justify spending the money. Let me tell you, it was worth every penny that she spent! I'm converted*, and so is Dan.

I was so excited about the fancy toothbrush that I felt inspired to write an ode:

We wandered into the office thoughtlessly,

And, on the sudden, dreading the surprise,

Found too many cavities, deteriorating side by side

In between all the crevices, doomed our finances

Of course I brush and floss

Although the hygienist was not assured

The pristine sister I knew;

But who was thou, O sonicare brush?

The genuine clean!

O the glory of having two sonicares

One for each half

More confusing that they're the same

Not one single difference between the two

Until the Sharpie came to visit

It was only I required to label

But my efforts were insignificant

And my other half made it more plain to see

Whose was whose

O blasted summer! though too late for basketball

And too early for college football

Why must I look at a toothbrush to remember

The drawn-out Saturdays that lie ahead.

*The first time, and the next for the matter, it will tickle to the point of laughter. But you will get used to it and it will be worth the just-visited-the-dentist feeling.

Living in the Here and Now

2010-03-12T08:10:00.000-08:00

Lately I've been gung ho about learning new skills. I've been aching to go back to school; a masters would be nice, but I don't even need that. I simply want to sit in a classroom, learn from a a wealth of some teacher's knowledge, and feel a sense of accomplishment when it rubs off on me. I started gathering information from a slew of online schools (since going to campus with Eva isn't what I consider the best "learning environment"), but the online schools are ridiculously expensive.

So . . . I am doing something what I call "rogue learning"—I'm going at it on my own. I went to the library and walked out the double glass sliding doors with a stack of 20 books that while being carried leveled out with my head. Most of them were on desktop publishing skills and careers. I've been interested in design for a while and in a few of my editing classes I became familiar with Adobe software (InDesign, Illustrator, Photoshop). But sadly, the Adobe software costs a bazillion dollars. So, I turned to my books on HTML, and it took me 5 hours to write the code for a very, very basic web page. Okay, the actual writing didn't take long, but getting the code to view as a web page was insane. It turned out to be a simple setting in TextEdit that had to be changed. It is almost ridiculous how simple my web page is (I believe it reads one line: This is a very basic HTML page and yet I still can't figure it out). I was just beaming when I went to view the code in my web browser and it actually worked! Dan now calls me a computer nerd, and although I'm far from it, I guess I'm aspiring to be one. What can I say? Computers are here to stay.

I keep working at taking pictures, but let's face it. It's not really my forte. Eva was such a good subject to take pictures of inside that I thought we should go outside and snap a few on such a beautiful day. Well, the below picture was the first, and last, that we took of her in the grass. She hates grass. Next time, I'll try putting a blanket down first.

Update on Eva's health: She has had a continual ear infection since the beginning of January. I took her into the doctor again yesterday, and her left ear was flaming red. She is now on her fourth antibiotic in 2 1/2 months, which just makes me sick. More importantly, the poor girl has been in pain for that long. She hasn't been sleeping the best, probably because she is in pain. And some of it is self-inflicted. She is really strong, and pulls herself up on everything, especially unstable objects. When I place her in her crib she'll pull herself up using the rails, and eventually fall back, hitting her head hard. It's pretty sad. I'm not sure what to do. Have any of you mother's had this problem? The only thing I can think of is to put her in her pack and play, which I'm not really sure I want to do.

Update on Dan: He's pretty much kicking butt in school. He just got his human physiology test back yeserday, and he got an A. He's a stud. As in he is studying all the time! Ha. I crack myself up. I'm really proud of him. And grateful that he's such a hard worker. Good thing he has Spring break coming up at the end of this month.

Dan doesn't get many naps these days. And Eva loves to wave. Especially at pictures of Jesus. It is adorable.

A Few More Gems

2010-03-02T21:24:00.001-08:00

I can't say enough good things about Jen Fauset. I have a complete adoration for people who develop talents and share them with the world. Every time I'm around those people I want to find my niche and go at it full speed. So far I have yet to find it, but I'm determined . . .

Oh Eva!

2010-02-26T16:35:00.000-08:00

It's been a lovely day. Eva got pictures taken. Eva wouldn't take a nap. Eva was diagnosed with a bad ear infection. But she still is lovely as ever.

By the way, Jen Fauset takes our pictures (engagement, wedding, and now family) and she is the most amazing photographer ever!

Progression and Attempts to Origin

2010-02-14T07:51:00.000-08:00

Hair. What a silly thing to fret about. It's been through a lot these past 8 months. I hate to admit, but my parents were right. I should have left it alone.

August 2009

September 2009

One day later in September 2009.

They call these "hot roots." I tried to go back to red by buying a box of 18 Ginger Spice, and I ended up magnifying x10 my grown-out roots.

Just in case you're thinking it wasn't bad: air go the close-up, it was.

February 10, 2009. I decided it was time to go to a professional. And this is what happened.

February 11. 2009. Round Two. She stripped the coppery and exuberant red out, to leave me with a not-quite natural red. But I'm guessing it will fade. And if not, I'm shaving it off and starting anew.

Death of an iPod and other adventures

2010-02-10T08:57:00.000-08:00

Eva crawled for the first time yesterday without any assistance from us. It was so neat, and ever since then she's been up on her hind legs trying to do it again and again. Don't get the wrong impression, she's not zooming to and fro the room. She's more snail like, and I couldn't be more proud of her. We tried to get it on video, but really, I missed it.

She swallowed her first food (beside formula) a few weeks ago. It was after she turned 6 months, and I randomly tried some graduate puffs. She still eats them, most importantly swallows, although she won't touch any of the mashed up foods. (In case you forgot, see the post with her spewing all things nutritious out of her mouth).

She has her first doll! And I'm proud to say it isn't a Barbie. Aunt Marla sent her a cabbage patch doll, thanks to her wonderful insight that Eva looked just like one. I forgot how good cabbage patch dolls smell. Eva's slobber will soon distinguish the fresh powdery smell, so I'm getting all my sniffs in now. Dan happened to dress her this day. I thought it was cute until we went to lunch at Pei Wei and the lady said, "He's so adorable." I just nodded at her, wondering if I correct her, but she did have reasonable evidence. Raise your hand if you think Eva should get her ears pierced (it's the big debate in our home). Oh, and a big shout out to Marla for sending the package. We can't wait to see her in one week from TODAY!

She clicks her tongue. So freaking cute. And she sticks her tongue out at me. Dan doesn't believe me, but one day for about 20 minutes we bonded while I stuck my tongue out at her until she did the same back.

And as for the title, well I was a bit careless and let Eva teethe on a 300 dollar iPod. She has been teething for months now, and although it may be hard for you to imagine, she can be quite cranky. So in my attempt to get 5 minutes of peace, I let her continue to chew on her newfound toy. I took the nonfunctioning iPod into Apple the next day, they knew it was water ("slobber") damaged, and yet the nice man behind the counter still replaced it for me. I have a whole new level of gratitude for those Mac geniuses.

Eva: up close

2010-02-03T12:09:00.000-08:00

Eva and I have been working on the art of crawling. She wants to move around so badly, that she will just wiggle out of anything, and then start to cry once she realizes the mess she got herself into. Sometimes I wonder what happened to my calm baby. But alas, we're entering the explore and mobile stage.

So here are some pictures from our photo shoot today. On the ground. But wanting oh-so-bad to be able to lift that booty up.

I call this Eva's pilates moves. She just needs to invert this move, and I think she would have the starting crawl position.

Oh yes, she has her hands planted. But she's not happy about it.

She's so done with this crawling business. I'm thinking she'll go straight to walking.

Time for a break.

She's working up an appetite.

And back to happy.

Cooking with Eva

2010-01-19T19:09:00.000-08:00

The Biggest Loser Cookbook is awesome. After giving it a good look through, Dan and I both agreed we had to try the asparagus quiches made with tortillas and egg beaters. It was quite the invention, and didn't take long at all!

Today I was cutting up broccoli, and Eva was in one of her moods that she had to be in the middle of what was going on. So I placed her on the counter as I cut up pieces and she would stick them in her mouth. Such a funny girl.

Open wide.

Yum.

Oops. Too big.

And Jana, this picture is just for you. The crocs finally fit her. You know, the crocs you sent out with Mom and Dad that she wore the day she was born. Well, she had to wear them with socks, since it's winter, but they were still cute!

Understanding Charles

2010-01-14T12:07:00.000-08:00

All the years I spent growing up in my red, then pink (cabbage rose), and now sage green house on Preston Road, there was a sign hanging that read:

I love these little people,

and it's not a slight thing when they,

who are so fresh from God,

love us.

-Charles Dickens

Honestly, what I remember most about reading it was that I had no idea what it meant. The writing was in cursive, the color looked like our 1980 orange carpet, and so I mostly thought my non-understanding was justified in the old age of the saying. But now, at this stage of my life, I can say I get it. I understand. I love my family more every day, and I had no idea the capacity of the human heart (and soul) until now.

Mini soh ta Part Deux

2010-01-12T12:44:00.000-08:00

Ok, now where were we?

Oh yes, the great Mall of America trips. That's right, trips is plural. We went twice! The first time was to go shopping, on a quest for any Michigan paraphernalia we could find. Champs came through with some awesome hoodies. The second time Dan and I went our separate ways. He went to the exhibit Body Worlds with some of my family, while I went shopping again! (Lucky me).

On Saturday, we drove downtown to visit the St. Mary's Basilica. Ever since Dan saw it from afar, he's said he wanted to go inside. It was big, and beautiful, and abominable all at the same time. We even found one of Dan's forefathers, Joseph of Arimathea.

Next off, we walked a half a mile crossing Highway 35 in below zero temperatures to head to the Minneapolis Sculpture Gardens. You know, the famous spoon and cherry spot. And yes, that's me playing on a "sculpture."

Nearby is the Walker Art Center. Dan and I don't really have an appreciation for contemporary art so we mostly walked around asking how people really think so and so object is art. We had a good time. I didn't understand why people were looking at me funny until this picture: an employee asked us to stop taking pictures because it wasn't allowed. Live and learn.

To be a true Minnesotan, one must at least try a bite of herring on a cracker. Dan was willing, and my dad was offering. He actually kept it all in his mouth. I spit it out on my first try.

A glass of water makes everything better. Or perhaps he's smiling because he is now considered a true Minnesotan.

Eva loved all the extra attention from my family. And she's mastered the art of cuddling.

30 Degrees of Separation

2010-01-11T12:06:00.000-08:00

Brrrr . . . we were sure cold in the land of Minnesota! On any given day there was about a thirty degree difference from there to West Jordan, Utah. It sure made coming back seem like nice weather!!

We had lots we wanted to do. Dan and I vacation in two completely opposite ways. He loves to plan things out/make lists to make sure we get to everything. I like to decide the day of, after I've slept in and indulged in some breakfast. We compromised. And we were given the best Christmas present: we slept in until 9 or 10 for a whole week since my Mom would wake up with Eva in the morning. It felt great!

We flew in on the 26th, and we celebrated Christmas one day late (it's almost becoming a tradition). We were surrounded by family, and the little kids were on presents and sugar highs. I was out of energy after about an hour. But Dan just keeps going, and that is why the kids love him.

Eva also found her favorite toy that requires more energy on the adult's part. She absolutely fell in love with riding around the house on this choo choo train. She was blissfully happy while riding along, no matter how fast, she didn't get scared. And when we stopped, she would start banging the train with her hand, almost saying "Come on, let's go!"

Dan found out long before we left on our trip that the Jazz were playing the Timberwolves at home, and so we bought some sweet 7 dollar tickets. I was really hoping to watch the Wolves beat the Jazz for the third time, but D-Will just wouldn't allow it. Hopefully, he can sleep again at night now that they are 1 and 2.

What can I say? I'm confused as to who to cheer for. But mainly, I cheered for the Wolves.

Dan and I put a bet down on the game. Since the Jazz won, I made him a full course breakfast the next day.

Part II is coming tomorrow during Eva's nap . . . Get excited!

Small and Simple Details.

2009-12-29T19:07:00.000-08:00

We hope you all had a wonderful Christmas. Eva loved all the bright and beautiful colors of the wrapping paper (more so than the actual presents inside).

Feeling Festively Christmas

2009-12-07T12:56:00.000-08:00

Although it was once believed among the land that I didn't like holidays, you can see that the Allen family has indeed been decorating and feeling the Christmas Spirit.

Of course I love the month of December. I get warm fuzzies inside. I tend to dislike how easy it is to get caught up in the spending money and losing the focus of Christ's birth. But that doesn't mean that I can disregard all the other goodness that comes this time of year: more selflessness, learning more of the Savior, Jesus Christ, and more laughing, more smiling, and more forgiveness. It's the most wonderful time of year!

Rudimentary Basics of Swallowing

2009-12-04T11:05:00.000-08:00

Okay, I need some help.ideas.advice.anything will do.

It used to be cute, and it still kind of is, but Eva will not swallow anything but her formula. Our pediatrician said to start her on cereals and vegetables (but to hold off on fruits), but she will not swallow. Maybe I just need to try more often with her? Quite frankly, I don't like to feed her too much because of the mess it makes on my kitchen floor.

Perhaps, I should try harder to stop laughing at her spitting the food out.

The Good Life

2009-11-29T16:37:00.000-08:00

Lately I've been so enamored with Eva that I can't get much done around the house, or in other areas of my life. I've loved her since I saw her all gooey, but it's like my heart just keeps expanding to fit all this love for her that's growing daily. She has such a personality already, and I'm enjoying motherhood more than I thought possible.

She had her check-up at four months. Everything went well. Including the shots. She is a very forgiving baby, and doesn't hold it against me for too long.

Her stats were as we expected, in the 90th percentile for height and weight. She's bound for the WNBA, or any other sport her heart desires.

So far we've tried to get her to eat squash and rice cereal. Neither has been a success. But the pictures and videos have been quite the treat!

I love her face at the end. She's hilarious!

Birthday Mantras and Other Adventures

2009-11-13T13:02:00.000-08:00

I feel like I've been celebrating my birthday for the past month, and I've definitely been spoiled by Dan and my family.

While I was home in Minnesota taking care of my Dad, we celebrated Reva's and my birthday one Sunday. I don't have a single picture from it oddly enough since I haven't been to celebrate my birthday for 8 years now. It really felt like my birthday, even though it was a week early. And it was wonderful and touching and always funny to hear Jana sing Happy Birthday out of tune. Thanks Reva for sharing your birthday with me!

The actual week of my birthday was pretty awesome too. If you know Dan, you know he loves holidays. Christmas first, then birthdays. Since I've known him he has not given me my birthday present on the actual day. He's just too excited to keep it stowed away. And I love that about him. So, two nights before the 7th he gave me my awesome presents: a nice digital camera and a food processor I've been dying to have. Cha ching. He also picked up some lovely cupcakes at the Sweet Tooth Fairy, and I was in heaven.

Marla was in town as well. I've been seriously so blessed :) with all the family visits. I couldn't be happier about them. I really wanted to run a race on my birthday so we found one in Logan called the First Dam Run. To top it off, Marla found this adorable Bed and Breakfast nearby and we made a night of it. That night we had a chill night in West Jordan grilling shishkabobs and watching a movie. I'm really starting to like this whole birthday business.

Birthday cupcakes. I've always preferred them over birthday cake. And this kind was delicious. The peanut butter chocolate one had my name all over it.

The Ritter Mansion. Our delightful bed and breakfast off of Main Street.

Morning of my actual birthday, waiting for breakfast.

Breakfast has arrived, and it tasted better than it looks. Hard to imagine, but yes, it's true.

Right after breakfast we headed to the race, where Marla and I came up with all kinds of mantras to keep on running.

Mar and I outside the Logan temple.

Scrumptious Birthday Shishkabobs. And probably the last time we're grilling for the year!

A birthday sucker for Eva.

My daughter, the crunch master

2009-11-04T10:02:00.000-08:00

Eva just cracks us up. Last night she giggled for 5 seconds straight through. She pretty much thinks anything is funny, and smiles at anyone.

The first time she rolled over I didn't see it. Only my dad did, because it was while we were in Minnesota, and she was just chilling on the floor while I was doing something else. Then two days ago she rolled over again, but wouldn't do it again so Dan could see. We'll just have to keep practicing.

This trick we didn't practice. She just came up with it on her own. The girls at work poke her stomach when she's doing crunches, and say she has a two-pack.

Papa Joe

2009-10-22T06:50:00.000-07:00

I have no recollection of when I started to call my dad "Papa Joe" but the nickname stuck. It's a good nickname to break the ice, like when I talked to my dad for the first time after his heart surgery, and I said, "How are you doing, papa joe?" Sometimes he even signs my birthday cards with that name.

I love my dad and can't tell how relieved I am that his heart surgery on October 15th went as well as getting your chest cracked open can go. I love my husband for encouraging and supporting me to go take care of my dad for a while in Minnesota. Eva and I will miss Dan, but feel blessed to be some kind of help.

I'll see you soon ricardo. You'll get better in no time with lots of icecream and seasons three and four of Felicity. And then when that's finished there's Dawson's Creek.

Countdown to Kickoff

2009-10-17T07:14:00.000-07:00

I don't even have to tell you what we'll be doing today at 10:00 am. Go Blue!

Butterfield Canyon Photo Op

2009-10-13T19:52:00.000-07:00

We drove up to Butterfield Canyon while Jana was in town. Jana took the pictures, and Eva was a trooper. She has the cutest smile, but downplays it when the camera comes out.

She's quite good at sticking her tongue out.

Adorable. My new favorite picture.

I love giving Eva kisses.

I look a little worried. But really, I'm okay.

Eva is sort of smiling. She can't decide.

Hello Goodbye [Jana]

2009-10-11T17:46:00.000-07:00

Sometimes when I can't go to Minnesota, Minnesota comes to me . . . in the form of family. I've been really lucky to have so much family come out to visit. This past week Jana came for a lovely one-week visit. There was only so much we could cram into one week. Jana's visit not only doubled Eva's wardrobe, but has made her cuter (as if that were even possible). There was . . .

Shopping. Gobs of shopping.

Lunch at Rodizio's. It was to die for good.

Visiting Grandma in Ogden and having a good laugh.

Morning walks around West Jordan (Eva was properly bundled up).

Visiting friends in Provo.

Free babysitting services while Dan and I went to the Oquirrh Mountain Temple. It was our first time, and it is now my new favorite temple, at only 4 miles away.

Home Cooking: Grilling pizza and delicious stirfry (cabbage is the new secret ingredient).

Car ride to Smart Cookie and indulgence with a cookie icecream sandwich.

And did I mention all the shopping and cute outfits Eva now has?? Eva was tempted to go back with Jana, her personal shopper, but I made sure she didn't stay in the suitcase.

Thanks for coming Jan, I love you!

Whew. Three months.

2009-10-06T18:35:00.000-07:00

Life has passed me by these last three months in a whirlwind. I can't remember life without Eva, and the glimpses I do remember I still wouldn't take it back to the way it was (8 hours of sleep included). I love this little girl more than I imagined to be possible. She's three months today and looking cuter and cuter every day. Here are pictures taken from the past few days with Jana in town. (Jana really has a knack for picking out cute outfits, and bringing out her girly side).

Birthday Wishes

2009-10-02T09:00:00.000-07:00

My wonderful husband Dan turned 24 this week. We celebrated his birthday last Friday with family and friends, and the Michigan spirit streamed the house with blue and maize in every corner. (Thanks for the idea Mom!) We made 3 dozen empanadas and too many pizzas. One thing Dan and I both agree on is that it's better to have too much food, than a shortage of food at a party.

Dan and the awesome cake his Mom made. Go Blue!

Dan and our cute niece eating some birthday cake.

The actual day of his birthday, Wednesday, Dan went to school despite my attempts to get him to sluff. Luckily, his last class of the day was cancelled so we went out to lunch at Macaroni Grill in Salt Lake, and then headed home to my favorite part: opening presents.

Dan and Eva at Macaroni Grill, waiting for our delicious food.

I decided to spice up the process of opening presents this year, with a total of 8 presents I didn't want it to be boring. So I put Dan to work for his presents. I had a set of Michigan football questions prepared, and for every question he answered correctly, he opened a present.

He answered the questions really well. I think the only one he missed was a question about how many marching band members there were in 2002. Answer: 235. I know, it's a bit out there, but you have to remember, he's a fanatic and stores every bit of Michigan knowledge.

He looks pretty happy. I can't blame him, he basically opened up an entire new Michigan wardrobe.

The day passed us all too quickly, and we headed off to work at 6:00 pm. The girls played a game for Dan's birthday, and there were lots of prizes for the girls that scored the highest on the "How well do you know Dan" Questionnaire. One of the girls questions was "What is Dan's favorite animal?" and one girl answered "Cougar" with my name in parentheses. Oh, these girls have such a sense of humor. Really, his favorite animal is a moose. We celebrated with another Michigan cake, (this one is store bought, someday I'll turn all crafty and decorate cakes myself).

Thank you Target, for your football cake-decorating skills.

Making a wish that Michigan will go undefeated. Or so that's my guess.

Eva and I enjoying the party.

Happy Birthday Dan! You are a better husband, than you are a Michigan fan, which says a lot:)

Bath time in pictures

2009-09-28T14:26:00.000-07:00

I really disliked bath time for the first month when we could only give Eva sponge baths. Probably because she was screaming and squirming the whole time. Now she splashes and smiles all through bath time, and it is one of my favorite routines of the day.

I love my mission

2009-09-24T07:45:00.000-07:00

I've been home over 2 years, but I couldn't believe the memories that flooded back into my heart while I was at a Sisters Gathering at the President's home last Friday. It was really neat to talk to sisters that served in areas after I did and see what came about. Eva came too and it was such a good time.

The hermanas and President Hutchison, truly one of my favorite people.

My last companion, Marsh, who just got married to an Elder from her mission. I think there's an expression for that: like mother, like daughter.

Perilous Days

2009-09-19T15:29:00.001-07:00

On Thursday, I had this wind-in-your-hair freedom exhilaration experience. It was pretty rad. I've refound my favorite pastime: rollerblading around water. It's a lot easier in Minnesota, what with all the lakes and such, but awhile back Dan introduced me to a community in West Jordan called Daybreak. We went when I was pregnant and all I could think about was how great it would be to rollerblade around it.

So I put on my rollerblades for the first time since being 7 months pregnant, and even then I wasn't really rollerblading. Just trying to get a rise out of Dan. But before that it had been like 2 years, so I was definitely itching to go, and to go fast. Funny thing though because my track record with rollerblading is borderline clumsy. Sometimes these downhills don't seem all that taunting until you're already halfway down on wheels.

Either way, I almost fell in the lake this time around. And after my heart skipped a beat, and my forehead starting perspiring within 3 seconds, I just let out this laugh because it felt nice to be a dangerous Mom.

Great Grandma Lovin'

2009-09-16T07:42:00.000-07:00

I'm ashamed to admit that yesterday my trip up to Ogden was only the second time Grandma Donna had seen little Eva. We went to see her a week after she was born as well. We loved the time together, and left with more resolve to visit more often!

Just looking at the two pictures, makes me realize how much she has grown.

July 15, 2009

September 15, 2009

Of course, there was lunch at Wing Wah, my favorite chinese in Ogden. And then I made a pitstop in Roy to see a mission companion that had her baby two weeks ago! She was so tiny, I felt a stir within that wanted to have another baby. Weird, I know. I'll just have to accept they don't stay that small for very long.

Two month Well-Check

2009-09-15T18:22:00.001-07:00

Eva's Stats

Weight: 13 pounds (95th percentile)

Height: 23.5 inches (90th percentile)

Head: 39.6 cm (75th percentile)

Eva got a total of three shots in her thighs. I was really nervous about them. Especially since that morning before I took her in she was ultra sensitive. She usually loves the blowdryer, but she started frantically crying, among other things she fussed about all morning.

She was perfectly quiet and still for the first shot. At the end of the second, her face turned red, and she let out a scream. And by the third shot, she was very upset, face bright red, mouth wide open, without any sound coming out. She calmed down in a few minutes, but was fussy for the rest of the day. Which is why I call it a 2 month make-mom-pull-out-her-hair check.

Skill of the Day

2009-09-11T12:09:00.000-07:00

Eva is finding her thumb easier and easier. I can't believe it. Every time she does some simple new motor skill I'm easily impressed.

Oh, and do you see any similarities with these two?? Too funny.

Wearing Eva

2009-09-09T18:56:00.000-07:00

My new favorite piece of jewelry is sporting Eva's name. My sister-in-law makes these charms and just the other week I was coveting them. She gave me one with Evalyn's name on it the day of her baby blessing, and I don't think I've taken it off, but to sleep and shower.

A closer look, but it still doesn't do the necklace justice.

Check out her website, they are just so cute! And yes, I realize my hair is still brown. It's definitely been more than 28 washes, so it hasn't turned out to be as temporary as I thought.

Independence for Eva

2009-09-04T12:19:00.001-07:00

Last night marked the first night Eva slept in her own room. Dan was almost betting on waking up and finding me sleeping in Eva's room, but I made it the whole night staying in my room. I don't think Eva even noticed she was in a different room. She did the usual, woke up at 3:30 am and 6:30 am.

The only way I got through it was with a video baby monitor. Now you may be chuckling, or silently making fun of me with your thoughts, but it has been a lovely toy to have. I can wake up with my usual thought of wondering what she's doing (if she's sleeping, if she's miraculously rolled over at two months, or even randomly smiling, etc.) and with a press of a button I can see she's still peacefully sleeping.

She's getting better at unswaddling herself, which usually means she wakes up and demands a redo. Which is why I will forever praise the name of the miracle blanket, thanks to my Mom for giving me the gift of better sleep! Just the other day I found her like this.

I'd really love her to start sleeping through the night. Oh, I don't know, like a good 10 hours. But maybe it's just too early for that and I'll have to be patient.

On a side note, tonight was the first day of college football for the season. Dan has been anxiously counting down the days until football starts and espn gets exciting again. Lucky enough, an hour before we were supposed to be at work, our boss called and told us to take the night off. Coincidence? I think not.

Happy Baby

2009-09-01T11:36:00.001-07:00

I love sweet Eva. Of course I do. She makes me so happy. Even when it's 2 in the morning, and she wakes me up apparently not to eat, but to smile at me.

I can feel it, her giggle is coming soon, very soon. Meanwhile, Dan's working with her to roll over and doing other baby exercises. Did I mention she's over 12 pounds, and in the 90th percentile for weight? Happy chubby babies are the best.

Eva's Baby Blessing

2009-09-01T10:31:00.000-07:00

Eva's baby blessing was this last Sunday, August 30. To be honest, we were a little nervous about her screaming throughout the blessing, since she has some great vocals. But alas, she proved to be a delightful baby, and only her hiccups resonated in the microphone. She was blessed in the West Ridge Academy 2nd Branch, which has been our ward for the past year, and we loved it.

Mt Timpanogos: Round Two

2009-08-30T11:00:00.000-07:00

Almost two years ago (September 15th 2007), due to the request of Emily, I planned a hike with a group of people to hike Mt Timpanogos (11,749 feet above sea level, 14.6 miles of hiking roundtrip with a total elevation gain of 4,580 feet). It quickly became my favorite hiking destination with beautiful scenery, large Mountain Goats, and great exercise. We all made it to the top, although there were a few people who whined about some supposed cold weather (all whiners were boys).

Last year Emily and I really wanted to do the hike again last year but she mysteriously broke her pinky toe (see previous blog entries for details) and thus we could not do it.

About one week ago as I was taking out the trash I could see the peak of Timpanogos off in the distance and I am sure the Mountain talked to me and told me to hike to the top of it. So I called together a group of friends to do the hike. Emily was unable to hike again because of Eva and work but the next time she can come along.

I knew the hike was worth it this time when we saw some moose off in the distance within the first mile.

And if that were not enough to make any day great, later on as we got closer to the summit we got within 15 feet of a baby mountain goat, who was named "Psycho" by some kids near by.

We were all able to reach the top again although I think I must really be out of shape because I thought the hike was a lot shorter last time! The views from the peak were still very beautiful and I look forward to next time I can go to the summit, hopefully with Emily, and maybe even Eva.

Temple Square

2009-08-23T08:37:00.001-07:00

It had been a while since I've been to Temple Square. After the Minnesota vacation, Dan and I had a few days to recuperate and spend time together since he was still on break between semesters. I love having the mornings with him because we get out to do some fun things, and some other not-so-exciting things like errands.

Anyway, this time it was spiritually edifying as well as fun. Eva's first time on Temple Square and she loved it, of course!

My favorite part was watching the 20-minute presentation on families, a secret room found right after the presentation of the Christus. Dan introduced it to me while we were dating, which was somewhat awkward, but then we went again after we got married, and this last time with Eva, which was so neat since the focus is on families being eternal.

And we're back . . .

2009-08-20T18:33:00.000-07:00

It's such a weird thing to feel like I have two homes. When we left on our 10-day vacation to Minnesota I would say I was visiting home, and then when we came back to our lovely abode, I thought, "home, sweet home."

Eva did great on the plane. Slept most of the time that the engine lulled. Except for when she woke up to sneeze on the businessmen to my left and he uttered an audible groan of disgust.

I loved seeing my family. Campfires and eating s'mores. Listening to the waves of Lake Superior. Not being able to see the ground on our hikes because of all the green shrubbery. Tubing in the lake. Reading leisurely, and lazily. Sleeping in. Taking a break from our diet and eating so much good food. Riding fiercely fast done the alpine slide. Looking for moose. Celebrating my momma's birthday. And so much more . . .

Beautiful Lake Superior, right in our backyard.

Dan bored on the Minnesota hikes due to the lack of incline.

Chloe and Jake looking happy to be on vacation.

The entire family on our last day posing for a picture on the patio.

Hike on the Oberg Mountain Loop Trail. There were lots of lookouts.

The girls on a hike: Chloe, Reva, me, and Jan.

Sadly, the only moose we spotted was at Canal Park (Duluth, Minnesota).

My latest favorite picture of Eva.

Isaiah loves baby Eva. This is one of the few pictures where he's not trying to eat her head.
Reva and me on the ski lift to the alpine slide.

Thank you to my wonderful family for a memorable trip, I'd love to come back and do it all again!

Baby Materialism

2009-08-04T12:26:00.000-07:00

Since having Eva I have been introduced to a whole new world of shopping: baby shopping, that is. The truth is I love baby shopping and will find any excuse to buy something if there is a chance she will need it. A few of my favorite things in baby world so far are:

Eva in her pink sweetheart pajamas. I can't help but kiss her.

The cutest baby quilt ever! Made by grandma Lisea. Aren't the duck flaps adorable?

Diaper bag. Who knew they could be so stylin'?

Thanks Aunt Laura and Stacy, I'm not ashamed to go out in public with this one:)

\ˈdras-tik\

2009-08-03T07:18:00.000-07:00

I couldn't take the suspense any longer. I've been planning on chopping off at least 10 inches for quite a while, but I was going to wait until all the baby weight magically disappeared. Suffice it to say the disappearance is going slow, and there's no magic involved. On Friday night, Dan watched Eva while I went out to get a new look.

Holding my two pigtails of 11 inch hair. My head feels a pound lighter!

And as if chopping it all off wasn't enough, I had the girls at work yesterday die it Nutmeg. (Don't worry mom, it's only a temporary dye.)

Of course, I was feeling a bit of remorse about my hair, wishing I didn't have to go so drastic. I can't even remember the last time I got a trim and called it quits. But I stopped having self-pity when I remembered where my hair was going. I'm sure I'll be doing the same thing in another two years.

Countdowns

2009-07-31T10:24:00.000-07:00

Days until . . .

We head to luscious green Minnesota and spend a week on the Lake Superior's waterfront.

College Football starts and I lose my husband one day a week to the game.

I am to run my first half-marathon. St. George, Utah, and it just so happens to be the same amount of days until my birthday.

Until we receive our new Flip Ultra HD camcorder and start capturing family memories!

hours, not days, until I cut off all my hair that I grew out while being pregnant and donate it to Locks of Love.

So much to look forward to.

Bees Game

2009-07-30T07:16:00.000-07:00

My first time going to a baseball game was this past weekend with Dan's family. It was pretty awesome, and our seats were on the grass behind the diamond, which I loved! It was Eva's first night out on the town, or something like that, and she loved it too. Thanks for the tickets Tracy!

Our niece Raley took this picture, she's got some skills with a camera at only five years old!

Cute lil' Ellie getting to know her new cousin!

And we even ran into our mission president and his lovely wife!! It was pretty fun bumping into them with our little Eva.